Writing

Thoughts on Adoption

buy orlistat By |2019-03-18T15:55:05+00:00March 18th, 2019|Categories: Adoption, writing, YA contemporary|Tags: , , |

buy inderal la online Most of the main characters I write are affected by adoption in some way. That’s because I’m an adoptive parent, and I wanted to put books into the world with kids like mine.  People often ask me what it’s like to be an to be an adoptive parent? The short answer, like being a non-adoptive parent.  You love your kids so much sometimes you think you will explode. You worry about your kids so much sometimes you think you will explode.  (There is a long answer, because the specific issues you face are unique, but more on that in future posts.)

buy provigil reddit From the moment I knew my children existed, I was in love.  It’s hard to describe just how amazing it is to literally meet your children. My heart pounded with anticipation, and I thought it would never stop pounding, but then for a second it did, and the whole world was still. I looked at them and they looked at me and we zinged. And that was it. I became fully focused on seeing the world from their perspective and figuring out how to make that world the best place for them. It happened in a fraction of a second. We looked each other in the eye and in my heart I said, you’re mine and I’m yours and come hell or high-water, we’re in this forever. I like to think it was love at first sight for them, but I definitely know it was for me.

 

Four Rules for Editing (and Remodeling)

By |2019-02-20T22:39:31+00:00February 20th, 2019|Categories: Editing, writing|Tags: , , , |

You would think after overseeing MANY remodels and the construction of a 3 new homes, I would be a pro at that kind of stuff.  And I am much better than I used to be at handling projects, but every new project brings new challenges and problems.  And as I work on my current house, the writing and editing metaphors are pretty clear. Here are my four rules for writing and remodeling.

1. climax spray price navigate Preparation is EVERYTHING.   The right tools, a clean surface, a level floor, a solid foundation… the basics of good storytelling, plotting, grammar, constant reading, and practice.

2. еstimate benadryl cost Don’t rush.   Make you paint lines straight and clean.  Measure your flooring before deciding where to cut the planks.  Let a new story idea ruminate, write down a major outline.  Flesh out your characters on paper or in your head.  Whatever your process is, perfect it. I often find that if I take the time to write down even a one sentence outline of my chapters, the plot holes and arc become much clearer. Doing things right the first time (whatever that means for you in your individual process) saves so much time in the end.

3.   http://www.vabrika.com/97553-differin-prescription.html Get help from friends and professionals!! You need it! Don’t attempt to redo major plumbing or electrical repairs on your own.  Make sure you have two people for two-man (woman) jobs. Find great Beta readers, make friends you can help and who can help you.  Establish genuine and mutually beneficial friendships.  Accept critique and feedback. Your beta reader/agent/editor has your best interest at heart. They want you to succeed. And if you doubt that, then it’s time to find someone who you trust.

4.  http://www.irunct.com/42624-betnovate-scalp-application-price.html Take a moment to enjoy finished projects.  Ignore the flaws for a while.  Wait a few weeks before attempting to redo anything.   If you’re not sure about a paint color, look at it in all lights and at all times of the day.  If you LOVE a paint color, look at it in all lights and at all times of day.  Insert the word “scene” or “chapter” or “book” instead of paint color and the rule is pretty much the same.

These are my basic rules for remodeling and editing.  Yours might be different than mine, but either way I believe it’s important to have them and reevaluate them from time to time until you find what works.